HONEST OPINION PART 2

by Alabi Ayomide

This is me just thinking randomly and I’ve realized that the need for people to know about you is something that isn’t talked about enough, especially in this part of the world. I’ve not been to any other parts but I’ve watched them in movies, lol…

Have you had a sudden friendship with someone and you think the person really cares about you? only for you to later get to know that they only wanted to get one or two pieces of information about you.

Some want to know just to satisfy their curiosity, they want to be able to size you up and put you in a class. While others want to know so they can broadcast it. These ones wanna prove they know you more, so they thereby go round to tell people everything they know about at every given opportunity. They are happy to fill people in on things they don’t know about you.

Relationships with these people start suddenly and may or may not end suddenly (depending on your kind of person).

They start by telling you about themselves and about others around you, with a lot of lies in between. At the end you’ll be compelled to also talk about yourself.

They are very helpful and kind to a fault.

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You are the only good person. They tell you others are bad and you are better than them, so you have to be careful of them.

My observation is that if you are their kind, after supplying them with information about you that they need (whether truth or lies), you also get enough info from them, then both of you spread it around. Rumors will start jamming rumors, this causes disagreement and the relationship ends abruptly!

…or you don’t give them what they want, your life remains a mystery to them, they get tired and draw back, then they start formulating baseless rumors about you which won’t stand since it’s not the truth.

Moral lesson: Learn to discern and screen people that come around you. A lot of people never got over people failing them, friends betraying them because they made the wrong person their bestie, they entrusted their life issues into the wrong hands. You mustn’t fight with people but learn to keep people at arms length for the sake of your peace of mind.

Psm. 1:1

@Ama’Grace